In an immediate sense you need me to run through things you need to do in the day, and whether you’re prepared. Ideally I’d think everything through for you and tell you at the door that you’ve forgotten to make sandwiches and also bus money. However, I’m refusing to do that.
It may be a harder experience for you, but I am not willing to take on this role for you. It is not fair on me, and it is not what you need. You need to do it yourself: make the mistakes that will make you remember to do it right next time. These growing pains are healthy for you.